I may be too new of a newbi to put my 2 cents in, but here goes. My thoughts on being able to say anything here is, there are those who are more comfortable talking about somethings than others are. Those who aren't so comfortable to bring something up need that push and know that they can say anything, to those who trully do understand. I thank those of you who are stronger (maybe not a good word for it) or more ready to say the things that I need to read and understand. Secondly, a poem I read once seems to fit. "A friend is someone, so they say, who knows all about you and likes you anyway" Aren't families like that?