Brother Carl, have some faith in the brothers and sisters, the task we have committed ourselves to is at best difficult. Even if we can't reach them about the reunion we will still keep on trying to get them back to the family. There are those who just don't want to come home, they don't want to be reminded of Nam. For them there is nothing we can do except keep them in our hearts and hope in time they will feel comfortable enough to pull pitch with us again.