"Handling them"?????? Are you supposed to be able to do that??? My Mom would tell you "ABSOLUTELY IMPOSSIBLE"!!!! As for my son, I was pretty damn lucky - he was a great kid (still is!) so "handling" was not an issue.

Of course, I could just be comparing him to me as a youth and in that case ANY kid would be great!!!!

How old are your two? That would make a difference. If they are over the age of 3 forget it.... It's already too late and you are doomed... :-)

Gail