Caroline,
Not sure about the others on our net but for me this is one of the few places I will speak openly about Nam. People with no personal attachment to what we did just do not understand or don't care to listen. I do on occasion talk with my family about it but some things are off limits and will remain that way.
I know I am part of the problem with other people not understanding but some things are just to painfull to tell.
Thank you for listening to us.
Tom Gator 851.