Tom,
If we don't get you there, you will be sorely missed. I understand the financial thing, and your son comes first. The next question is, what would it cost you to get there? I'm sure I can work something out, or we can work something out, or whatever, as long as the time doesn't coincide with your activity with your son. We love ya and need to spend time with ya, whatever it takes.
Shoofly
Croc 6