Love the attitude Ron, I agree that grandkids should have come first, my grandson's father was a pain to raise. Now, he is getting the good years of raising children, wait till the grandson gets older.
Sugar shock will not be the problem, I am going to tell the grandson what my son did while he was growing up, give him inspiration to top his old man, like my son did for me. Everything that I did in my youth, I think that my son topped by at least three fold. Fourteen is a good age, and that gives me ten years to teach my grandson.
Huey