Carl has made the point and I have to admit that my anxiety about the reunion has made me edgy and caused me to word things in a hurtful way. It is not my intention to hurt anyone's feelings or to make vague accusations. I just want as many as possible to make the reunion cause for me it will probably be the last time I will have a chance to see any of you. As Carl so elequaintly pointed out, we are all family and I love all of you whether you like it or not! Brother Tom