Bob,
We all died in that war, there was no way to survive. The days since that war have been days that were given to us to punish us or to reward us, each has to determine for himself the value of each of those days. The problems that many of us face are only supported by the fact that healing help is being found as we find each other again. Our brotherhood has helped me and I hope that the same is true for others. Help comes in the form of love for your brothers, mutual support and discussion of common life activities reinforcing our will to live.
Huey